Case:

The working capability that the colleague flies to is very strong, the sale outstanding achievement of every month also is discharged advanced a few. But, he cannot get promotion from beginning to end, and road of another young public relations group leader often gets leading praising however, to this, everybody feels incomprehensible.

After period of time, when people discovers every manager at the beginning of the month lets everybody do monthly to plan, fly to always exaggerate its demit earthquake sounds says he is OK sign in a few bill. Although arrive by the month,the autograph sheet that fly measures be among the best of candidates, but he because do not have,still finish " plan " and encounter criticism.

And when road of public relations group leader is publicizing a product, those who face is the celebrity in a few industries, still have famous expert learned man. She appears on the stage to say: "No matter be brains knowledge, still be knowledge experience, I be not a patch on is present each elder. So, my speech hard to avoid has the place of dilettante absurdity, still ask great include, grant instruction of not stint point out mistakes so that they can be corrected! " although her speech quality is general, but lead or feel to compare satisfaction.

Expert analysis:

Give you 3 cups of water, a cup of cold water, a cup of hot water, still have a cup of Wen Shui. Put the hand in cold water first when you, when in putting Wenshui again, going, can feel Wen Shui is very hot; And in putting the hand in hot water first when you, put until Wen Shuizhong goes again, you can feel Wen Shui is very cool however. Same cup warm water, let a person produce two kinds of different feelings however, this is effect of cold hot water. And in human association, effect of this kind of cold hot water often is having crucial effect.

Flying fault is in with respect to the fault before gave a lead exorbitant anticipate, cannot finish nature to accept criticism, even if finished, also be manage place ought to, result nature is to cannot get praise. And Lu Congming's place is in reduced expectation cost of everybody above all.

Expert proposal:

When coast encounters on the career, might as well tell others politely of the worst a got-up affair beforehand, although was not done good,also won't bring about so detest.

Altogether, if you cannot serve " hot water " , so might as well use first " cold water " fight in the van, serve next " Wen Shui " , can have favorable effect likewise.